A Few thoughts on Identity.
(as first articulated by Ricouer)
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Identity is not a thing we possess, it’s a process we continually become.
Like a flame, a person is recognizable, but never finished. Every moment adds fuel, removes fuel, and changes the shape of what we call “me.” And that means identity is always in motion: not just what we believe, but how our beliefs form; not just what we want, but how desire gets trained; not just what we do, but what makes action feel “natural.”
Yet modern life interferes with that process. Media, advertising, and political pressure don’t only inform us, they pre-package us while offering ready-made identities: who to be, what to want, what to fear, what counts as “thinking.”
Social systems train attention so thoroughly that many people don’t notice their inner life has been outsourced until Growth becomes harder. (not because change is impossible, but because distraction is constant and choices feel pre-selected.)
Over time, this can create what I think of as the 'Complacent Self, or : The Self that stops questioning while accepting whatever is handed to it. Beliefs, habits, tastes, roles etc, and then bizarrely calls such acceptance “being realistic.” It becomes predictable and easy to steer, because it isn’t practicing self-authorship anymore. (but rather allowing Society & Others script Identity for them)
It's not that the complacent self is evil; it’s that it’s often exhausted, overwhelmed, and sedated into a false state of comfort.Still..following a script is far simpler than writing one right?
But there is another way.
For The Resilient Self stays AWAKE. Not in a dramatic, perfect sense, just in a practiced one. It pays attention on purpose and asks, “Is this belief truly mine, or did it arrive already pre-labeled?” It keeps choosing what to accept and what to reject while treating identity as something to create rather than inherit.
When pressure comes, and the world tries to freeze you into a fixed role, the Resilient Self responds by continuing to BECOME.
So the central question becomes simple enough to live with: How do I keep becoming my "self" in a world that constantly tries to shape me?, while maintaining what passes for *Authenticity. (an interesting philosophical construct in It's own right compliments of Mr. Heiddeggar which has been makin It's rounds on various platforms the last few yrs. now I've noticed. )
The answer, at least in part, is an artistic "Practice" disguised as ordinary life: attention, honesty, and deliberate resistance.
You don’t have to shut the world out. You just have to stop letting the world write your story by default.
Identity is an art, and you are the artist.
J.S.H.